Is it a favorite quote posted where you can see it several times a day, or a message to yourself? Some people thrive on challenges to reach a goal or be in the winners circle, or not to be “left behind.”. Others work toward a deadline. Sometimes it is as simple as suggesting “only 10% of people ever “complete this course,” or “take this action,” to gain a specific benefit. It is in our human nature to want to be in community, tor o be part of a select group. When it comes as a personal challenge to our inner self, we are always in the winner’s circle.